Monday, 17 November 2014

Let Her Spread Those Wings

After centuries and millenniums of human existence, we are still contemplating about our existence. Even though we are responsible for your being, our importance is always questioned! Who are we?

We are women! Female human beings working for the betterment of your houses, your kids, your cities and your well being since the day of our birth. Why man has that idea of being superior to us when he is clearly not good enough even being a man. 




You are taller and stronger than we are, is that the reason why you need to pull us down every single time we threaten your persona!












Who gave you the right to kill me when I have not even born yet?

Who gave you the right to question my ideas and thoughts whenever I try to break free of your shadow?


Who made you responsible for my protection when your own kinds are killing; raping, molesting and making us regret the day we were born?



















Are you afraid of us? In the history of mankind, only a handful of women were capable of leaving their marks while others were suppressed. Allow your daughter to spread her wings, to achieve what she wishes to instead of making her feel small.
























Do not question her intentions! Allow her to be herself, to show what she really is instead of following the age old rituals and traditions of this idiotic society.




You Need to Bring In change

Woman!

Suddenly this word has started giving me chills. Not because I m scared of women, but because I m scared of being one in my own country, my own city and sometimes my own home.

 Every single day, I encounter advertisements about not killing female fetuses just because they are female and not a male one. 

Government urging hard, encouraging people not to killing their own unborn.  Urging mothers, grandmothers and female relatives for stopping slaughter of their own kind.

Is being a woman such a shame? Obviously it would be, when I have to think twice before leaving my own house. When I have to think several times before allowing a person to come near me, even if it is the beloved friend or brother of your father. When I have to consider several times before buying a dress thinking about the day when I was catcalled in streets for wearing a sleeveless top.

Is the way I dress, I walk; I talk and behave making man to kill me?

Is this the reason why some of the religions ask women to cover themselves?

Even after covering from head to toe in a long garb of clothing is unable to keep them safe. Even when I wear a baggy t-shirt and a loose fitted jeans, with no makeup on, men stare! Their eyes literally rape me mentally. After all women were made for their pleasure, to entertain them to make them feel like a man. It is their birth right to ogle women, girls and toddlers walking down the street.

Toddlers, yes, I mean nothing can be more sexier than that white diaper on that baby girl. Just a single glance of it is enough to arouse manhood in them, compelling them to rip it off and rape her like a piece of meat.

Often mother’s ask their daughters to dress up properly, for not showing those naked arms, shoulders, bellies and ankles. It may arouse some shithead, making him spoil daughter’s life forever. Instead or along with this, what if mothers and fathers ask their son for respecting girls. If they are protective about their own daughter, why these particular parents and sons become ignorant about other girls.

It’s not about changing the society or implementing better rules by government but it’s about oneself. You need to protect and respect girls; you need to make them feel proud to be a girl, to be a female!

It’s you who needs to bring in change!!

Monday, 2 September 2013

The Girl In the Metro- Monday September 2, 2013

Maybe our country is on the verge of dying or falling apart. The country’s economy has committed suicide, the gurus are raping young girls and people who are indulged in heinous crimes are literally awarded with a tinny tiny punishment just because he is a minor. 

Who is a minor? It is a person who isn't aware about his action and their consequences. But when he was raping her, when they were shoving that rod into her genitals, strangling her and later on throwing her on the road to die, he was aware of his actions. 

It isn't about who is getting 3 years of punishment or who is not. It is about justice for her and for every other girl who is scared to walk on the road. What we are supposed to do and what we are doing???