You Need to Bring In change

Woman!

Suddenly this word has started giving me chills. Not because I m scared of women, but because I m scared of being one in my own country, my own city and sometimes my own home.

 Every single day, I encounter advertisements about not killing female fetuses just because they are female and not a male one. 

Government urging hard, encouraging people not to killing their own unborn.  Urging mothers, grandmothers and female relatives for stopping slaughter of their own kind.

Is being a woman such a shame? Obviously it would be, when I have to think twice before leaving my own house. When I have to think several times before allowing a person to come near me, even if it is the beloved friend or brother of your father. When I have to consider several times before buying a dress thinking about the day when I was catcalled in streets for wearing a sleeveless top.

Is the way I dress, I walk; I talk and behave making man to kill me?

Is this the reason why some of the religions ask women to cover themselves?

Even after covering from head to toe in a long garb of clothing is unable to keep them safe. Even when I wear a baggy t-shirt and a loose fitted jeans, with no makeup on, men stare! Their eyes literally rape me mentally. After all women were made for their pleasure, to entertain them to make them feel like a man. It is their birth right to ogle women, girls and toddlers walking down the street.

Toddlers, yes, I mean nothing can be more sexier than that white diaper on that baby girl. Just a single glance of it is enough to arouse manhood in them, compelling them to rip it off and rape her like a piece of meat.

Often mother’s ask their daughters to dress up properly, for not showing those naked arms, shoulders, bellies and ankles. It may arouse some shithead, making him spoil daughter’s life forever. Instead or along with this, what if mothers and fathers ask their son for respecting girls. If they are protective about their own daughter, why these particular parents and sons become ignorant about other girls.

It’s not about changing the society or implementing better rules by government but it’s about oneself. You need to protect and respect girls; you need to make them feel proud to be a girl, to be a female!

It’s you who needs to bring in change!!