Inexplicable Love

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Inexplicable Love

         By Kritika Satya

You say that you love rain, but you open your umbrella when it rains.
You say that you love the sun, but you find a shadow spot when the sun shines.
You say that you love the wind, but you close your windows when wind blows.
This is why I am afraid, you say that you love me too.

I hardly know what exactly love is! It’s something intangible which when enters one’s life it vivify the person soon .No matter what are its side effects and after effects, one always try to be in this state once in a lifetime. Albeit there are many who are reluctant to be in this state of being in love at least for a while. As they say they dare not touch it with a 50 feet long wooden stick because they say it is as dangerous and innocuous as a 440 volts transformer with a caution board “Once you dare touch it and the other second you are finished”! They say it rather jeopardize your full-fledged happy life. Well the idea differs from one person to the other.
What happens when nascent love enters in life? When it enter one’s life the person become anomalous and so different that he/she becomes completely different from the person they were before. You start loving the things around you which you never paid attention before; you love yourself than ever before and you love that person more than yourself. You will get more excited and ecstatic every single moment.  And what if you are a phlegmatic person? Well I will skip this part as I am not a phlegmatic person neither do I know much about them! So I would rather talk about the common people in general.
So you start romanticizing things that leaves behind a smile on your face. Your morning starts with lots of excitement and expectation (Well expectation is mostly considered as a negative word here I am talking about its positivity in love life!). One starts envisaging little tummy tickling things everywhere possible. And when you are alone, single thought of that person acts as a catalyst for those blissful butterflies in your stomach which starts fluttering inside unstoppable. Every moment of your life seems to be for that person. And you want to become inextricable when together. And you don’t want your solitude to be disturbed. Everything related to you and that person becomes furtive most of the times. Up to this phase of love it’s beautiful and harmless. The actual problem starts when the words like insecurity, possessiveness, suspicion or hesitancy enters the relationship. One becomes insecure and too pushy and the other starts feeling suffocated and strangulated in the relationship. And from this point the love gets lost somewhere in the midst of egos and arguments. And if it persists for a longer time then everything becomes emptiness, transforming people into vacuous ghosts of who they used to be. And if not solved before it gets too late, there ends your beautiful love story with a simple note “It didn’t work out”! Well if you think it’s just all then I must tell you about the one-sided love which is even more excruciating if considered. A little ignorance from the person you are interested in might land you in a series of mood swings or might make you a victim of maniac depression. A little obsessiveness and possessiveness may leave your eyes red caused due to continuous shedding of tears last night. So basically you become more emotional and mawkish when you are in love than usual times. Love becomes abstruse so do people. And with all these things you cannot decide whether to love or not. Hence one is in a confused and baffled that whether it is beautiful or painful. One can never explain it. And hence love is “Inexplicable”.